Think Before You Speak

Before it used to be a saying I hear from wise people's mouth but when I really went through it I realized what it meant by every seconds passage. 

Honestly! You should think before you say anything, you might end up with an eternity punishment for something you said without really meaning it. The thing is when my boss asked me if it's okay to share his secretary's work with me I didn't think about it for a sec. and gave an answer right away later, just when everything was over already I noticed that it's not fair to go that way but he didn't take it back though it's not right from the first place. 

Now, every time I see her playing cause her work is less thanks to my big mouth and small thinking I know what does this saying mean. Later, when I ever face anything even if it's a no-big-deal seeming thing, I consider before giving an answer. 

Let others experience be a lesson to you too and don't let this happen to you. 

Today’s Lesson

Facing your problem and solving them out is you way to be relaxed afterward and if you’re thinking running away from them will make you feel better than you are totally dead wrong.

Cause if you leave just like that the problem will remain; when you work it out it’s over. Weather you are there or not. I used to hate people when they make fuse about stupid simple things with me and always preferred to run away but that wasn’t any of a use since they come back to me later since it’s there and I’m the one who walked away from the trouble not the problem itself. 

It’s so troublesome and I know it but also it’s worth it. That way you’ll improve yourself facing any other situations, get stronger and beat the matter itself.

Learn to Say "NO!"

Guess it's one of the important things you need in life to keep on going. 

There are times when you really don't feel like it, don't want to, have to and just want to let go of what you have in your chest, it's best to say "No!" whenever you feel like it. 

Going forward in life is a must if not an option but if you go just like that you might not make it since your mind isn't ready. You can do it later when you are prepared. Honestly, there are people who need to get this from you so they'll know where to stand and where to stop. 

It's your way of being honest, if you don't you'll hate yourself late and you don't want that. 
Trust me! I've been there myself.

Believe in Miracles, Cause they Do Happen!

Yeah! And I'm telling you this out of my own experience. 

I learnt in life never ever to ask any favor from people, I'll do everything on my own no matter what it coats. Then there are times when the MYSELF just isn't enough and I wish for a miracle from my lord. 

And you gotta believe me when I say they really happen!

I know life is unfair, but it's still good. When you live in all the darkness and fight it back and at last you see the light of the beam of help from no one else but for yourself, oh boy! I can't tell you the feeling that time. It's so amazing and worth the living for. 

And It Goes On

Whether we like it or not, the disaster is big or small, it's now or later, life with keep on going. 

I know it's hard sometimes but you should not that nothing stops the world from going on. I think the better way is to face and live with what's happening rather than stop everything else just for it. Eat chocolate with coffee and cream, laugh with crazy people and enjoy!

Be Brave

One really can't tell what he'll face once he steps his foot out of his house. 

 
It's a world full of mysterys and adventures out there. You don't really know when will the next guy hit on you, or the chance will fall from where, neither you know what will happen today. It's all unknown which most of the people fear and don't like to deal with. 


I know what it's like to be caution after all, we human being are careful creatures and it's natural to save yourself from the things that hurt you. But instead of seeing it as bad thing why not turn it the other way and take it as a discovery. Instead of not doing something in fear of the wrong result it may give take as a new experience for something you didn't know before. It will take a lot of courage from you. Don't be afraid cause you'll learn more when you make mistake and face bad stuff than just sit where you are and learn by reading solid and no-life lessons. 

You're Always Right

Ever had one of those moments when you said something right to someone but you wished you didn't just because no one else did it before?! Well, you shouldn't feel like that. 

 Cause you are always right!

It's true. As long as the thing you are saying is right and not unfair to anyone you shouldn't be afraid at all. Saying the right things in people's faces and telling them off specially when no one else did it before is a bravery act you should be proud of. So, if you had a fight with you boss about your right and you stood for yourself, then you should be super proud of it. It's better then be kicked out with you word heard and deeds done then stay in a place where your inner desires are poisoned. 

[ReBlog] Haters! DIE HARD!

A little re-post entry for one of my past thoughts.
" The best way to piss off a hater is to do what you like and they hate!"

I'm not telling you to start a war but sometimes it's always good to take action and tell the world that you respect them and not willing to wast your breath for them in the same time let them know that you can fight back and strong to handle any hardship in your way. 

A hater will always be a hater no matter what you do, that's why that are called that. You surely won't waste anything for them but they will know and be mad when they see you doing as you like and not as they are pleased. Remember, never leave your rights for any one B)

Life is Only Once

If you heart ever longed to do something then just do it!

Life is short and no one knows when they will go away from this world. That time money will never be any of a help for you. So, the next time you see something or had a thought for making an idea in your head come a live, then just do it! 

You have only one life to live, better make the most out of it while you can =) 

Just a Thought

Those who get jealous of you for a gift you got from your God are truly not worth your time or attention. So move away from them and ignore them whenever they come on your way.

The important thing is to keep the peace of your mind and soul

Distance

It's great to have many good relations with people in life but there are times where you need to be by yourself. It's okay to be alone from time to time to spend it for what you need. 

Most of our life is gone between work, school, kids, friends and couples. There are really less time spent for what we really need. It's a great way to fresh your thoughts about life and people around you. And always remember to keep a certain distance from people cause it's sad that the ones who hurt you are mostly the close ones, so it's a good thing to keep away from them. 

This is not to discourage you from relations with people, but once they are used on you they think anything would be fine and end up hurting you in a joking way no knowing that this is not allowed. So keep away from them sometimes, to let them know your value to them and them to know your limits that you got with people. 

It's Within You

Ever wanted to be something really amazing an awesome but you couldn't?!
You are waiting for the moment or looking up for people who are great in your views!?
You always wish but you're never there?!

Well, the talent is within you.

Rather than just wanting the thing why don't you do it right away instead of wishing. You don't what great things you have inside you that won't show up until you let it out. Believe me you are more that what you're thinking right now you just have to stop talking and start doing. Many famous people came to the world by just doing whatever they had in their mind some of them were even doing it randomly and they became where they are now,  
so what if it is planned?! 

 Believe in yourself, the talent is within you B)

Like Me, Hate Me, I Will Be Me!

Just the next time someone complaints about you or something tell them this off right away. There is this huge stupidity that makes them think you are here for their approval and pleasure. What they don't understand that you are not working for them, you are just doing your job and their either hate it or like it but there's no way they can be forced to be as you like. 

Appreciate The Hard Times

During these times you grow

You mind thinks of ways to deal with them and know how to over come them then it grown. If you stay on one tone and nothing comes into your way, you won't think of solution and in the future when you face one you'll lose for sure. 

Experience and lessons

One can't learn until he makes mistakes and from those mistakes lessons and learnt. It might be a hard time for you but in the same time you are processing something. All those hard work and smart thinking won't just go by, it will pay up in the end. 

The changing point

Whenever you have some hard times means that your life is changing, to better or worse is something you decide with you actions toward it. It you deal with it positively it will bloom that way for sure, and same goes for the opposite. 

The wind isn't cool and quite everyday, there are days when it blows everything away and you just shelter with your home. Similarly with situations in life, shelter with knowledge and skill to let it pass.

Live it Today!

"Yesterday is history, tomorrow is mystery and today is a gift, that's why it's called present"

I used to read this quote and every time I didn't consider that great meaning in it. I thought it is just a saying or so but then I realized it's more than just the names given to the days. 

When I actually went to the real world I noticed how busy and crowded it is. Every time when something gather up for me I keep it in the pending for tomorrow in hopes to finish it soon. Then, when the next day I find myself busy in other stuff and can't do that particular thing I left from yesterday. I then know what it means when they said it's a mystery and indeed and I can't tell what will happen tomorrow even if I put plans for it. Yesterday is of a same story. No matter how much sorry I feel for that day it will never come back and what happened just happened so it's a history now. 

Whatever you have for now do it, enjoy it and live it. Cause you have no idea of what will happen tomorrow. We all will put happy and positive thoughts for it but in the same time I can't really tell what's there in the box for us. So live it today. 

Stick to It

At unexpected times in life, you get offered with real great opportunities. It might surprise and scare you at first from thinking whether or not you can handle it and do it to perfection measure. Sometimes the thought of not deserving such blessings comes to your mind, it's all natural since it can be count as happiness overloaded or fear of failure.

Either way, you should never give up such chance!

It might be a heavy task to your list of to-do and everyday work, but it will add new experience to your back of knowledge. That definitely doesn't mean you'll get it at the first go but consider mistakes in the beginning. It's normal, we are human and that's how we learn. If we never try, we'll never know what we are really capable of. Also, you might not know what the world is really like. 

So, take those golden chances, carry on and stick to them!

Haters! DIE HARD!

" The best way to piss off a hater is to do what you like and they hate!"

I'm not telling you to start a war but sometimes it's always good to take action and tell the world that you respect them and not willing to wast your breath for them in the same time let them know that you can fight back and strong to handle any hardship in your way. 

A hater will always be a hater no matter what you do, that's why that are called that. You surely won't waste anything for them but they will know and be mad when they see you doing as you like and not as they are pleased. Remember, never leave your rights for any one B)

Thought of The Fighters

 "That doesn't kill you makes you stronger" 

May sound like a hard saying in the beginning but it really does pay up at the end. There are times when things go hard on you and you break down as long as it doesn't cause you any damage you carry on. Cause if you go emotional it will hold you back, if you take it seriously and think just on the process and result you'll get over it for sure. 

This will be once and then you'll enjoy heaven and success =) 

People and Life

You'll make most out of life when you stay away from people. Not trying to be emo to telling to world to be a gloomy person. Just when you feel that you had it with them give it a rest and clear your mind. You'll be all fresh the next time and ready to face to world again. 

Remember, no matter how much you invest and give to your people, friends and family, you should always keep yourself in that list and give time, reward and consider to yourself cause no one understands it better than you do.

~<3